Forgot to say..you 3 seem to have become "Palls", It's a phrase I haven't heard for along time.  But C + T love to meet up with you (despite the age-generation gap..Grand Dad or what?!), they have a great time with you (esp if you are paying for lunch!!).  But I really know they feel it would all be so much better if Jane was there to enjoy...she was great to them.
Px