Thanks Kath - I haven't met anyone who can walk away from rejection without it having an impact and it is inevitable that one tries to "impress" someone. It wouldn't do on the first date to fart, burp and pick your nose. I listened to Woman's Hour on Radio 4 about 12 months ago when they discussed at what point in a new relationship one feels comfortable with farting in bed - an interesting/humorous discussion with no conclusion.
Everyone I've met has been very sincere and no doubt true to themselves however in matters of the heart there is a tendency to ignore what your head is saying and be driven by your heart. As always, thank you for being there. xx