Yes, it's really refreshing that they don't put a label on me other than "friend". Jane and I always treated them like people, not children, it's inevitable that you will always see them as your girls...
And you are right, it would have been an even better day if Jane had been with us. Jane and I visited YSP on several occasions and loved every visit. She wasn't only good to Caitlin and Tessa she was good to everyone - I cannot describe how much I miss her :-(
thanks for your comments - Steve x