Hi Jane &amp; Steve,
Our friendship  extends well over 40 years now,  always known you Jane for your indefatigable spirit - we can't imagine you being 'miserable'.   The chemo must be a real bugger.
The hospice description sounds like what you offer her at home, Steve!
The chrissy pud'n will surely put a smile on your face
Lots of love &amp; hugs across the miles,
Ian &amp; Sue  xx
Australia