Hi Maureen, lovely to hear from you. I'm going through a wave period (read here for an explanation: http://pigyard.com/wordpress/archives/3164). It really hurts and there are no shortcuts or painkillers but I've been here before and I will come through it. The happier my memories of Jane the more I miss her so how does one square the circle?
Tomorrow is another day and the vegetable plot needs some more work so weather permitting I will keep busy. I need to investigate plants that will grow under the trees - shady and dry to fill out the space and then source them but no rush.