Dear Jane
With Murphy (which I can understand, honestly) and your "trips" to the hospital, it must be hard,,,,to say the very least.  But you have always been the most +ve couple we know...and so may that continue.  See you soon.
Love Paul &amp; Helene (and esp Caitlin and Tessa when Tabby passed away..v sad at the least but traumatic for some.
We were wondering to adopt another "fella" but haven't decided yet and agree that you give yourself awhile and then decide...but cats can be great/calming company...if not bringing in mice/climbing curtains etc.
Love
Paul and Helenex