Yes, not too soon I hope but as you said in a recent phone conversation you cannot avoid the inevitable. This is a tough subject and you are very brave to make comment. I'm sure if I were out there and I saw this on a website I wouldn't have the courage to get engaged with it.
Even though Jane and I had time to talk about death we only did so in anger and rage and nothing positive was ever discussed calmly. Sometimes blind optimism is the only way to live with a full heart. S xx