Dear steve, you are writing because you love jane.  The garden at the hospice is the most amazing tribute to jane and will live on for many years giving joy and comfort to others which is its own way is very 'jane'.  As for the toothpaste well, all I can think of to say is that the nearly empty tube reminds you of fun you had with jane.  Keep the memory steve and be proud of it.  With love Liz