Dear steve,  thank you for sharing everything all these months.  I am so sorry to learn of jane's death and comforted to know that eventually the doctors managed to overcome the pain and jane was at peace.
As you know I am on the other side of the world at the moment .  I will write again when I return at the end of February.
I remember jane as such a kind and gentle person so full of fun and laughter and a talented artist.  It has been good to have been in touch these last few years, thank goodness for Facebook and the Internet.  You have been the most attentive and adoring of husbands .  
With love and huge hugs to you
Liz